I was reading an article on anger management.... and this is what I found:
Focus on What's in it for you:
It's not always about who was right. Remind yourself that forgiving can free you to move on with your life. Tell yourself that the point is to reduce angst. After all, living well is the best revenge.
Now, I understand that they are saying that if you stress about such things, you won't live long, blah blah *makes fart noise* Be the bigger person..... but seriously.
It IS about who was right. If I was right... boy howdy, I will let you know until the day you die.
And living well isn't the best revenge. If I died while pursuing sweet revenge... I'd die with a big smirk on my face. If I died.... by letting someone walk over me.... I wouldn't.
SELF MAGAZINE LIES. :( I would be much better off kicking someones ass.